How to Say “I hate it” in Chinese
Feelings and opinions · HSK 3
"I hate it" in Chinese is 我讨厌 (wǒ tǎo yàn). 讨厌 literally means 'to detest' but it's way milder in Chinese than 'hate' in English; closer to 'can't stand' or 'annoying'. 我恨 (wǒ hèn) is the true strong 'hate' and is reserved for serious emotions; using it casually sounds melodramatic.
Primary translation
我讨厌
wǒ tǎo yàn
Traditional: 我討厭
Variants by register
Formal
我不喜欢
wǒ bù xǐ huān
Casual
我讨厌死了
wǒ tǎo yàn sǐ le
When to use it
讨厌 literally means 'to detest' but it's way milder in Chinese than 'hate' in English; closer to 'can't stand' or 'annoying'. 我恨 (wǒ hèn) is the true strong 'hate' and is reserved for serious emotions; using it casually sounds melodramatic. Girls in particular use 讨厌! as a playful protest ('stop it!/you're annoying!'), almost flirty. For objects/situations always follow 讨厌 with what you hate: 我讨厌下雨. The 死了 suffix means 'to death' and is a super common casual intensifier.
Example sentences
我讨厌堵车。
Wǒ tǎo yàn dǔ chē.
I hate traffic jams.
这种天气我讨厌死了!
Zhè zhǒng tiān qì wǒ tǎo yàn sǐ le!
I absolutely hate this kind of weather!
讨厌!别闹了。
Tǎo yàn! Bié nào le.
Stop it! Quit messing around.